Change Without couple fights!

Case 1
1: The first time you met him at a restaurant, you're stressed a lot of work. With office tasks that pile up, you do not have time to exercise as usual.. So do you weigh two pounds added. Office tasks done, you often add date with him. Six months later, by the time you spend eating out, barbeque on Sunday, eat together at home, while watching DVD delivery, and so on. In short, add more you weighed five pounds. The first time began to close, he could say like women and can enjoy the food contains. But the last few weeks much has changed. Six months and seven days after it first met, she gave the gift of a year in a member-equipped fitness center with personal trainer. Ouch!


Case 2
2: You've been together for six months. First met at happy hour at a famous club. He does not make you interested in the face or appearance. But, you connect and despite extensive knowledge of styles of dresses such as om-om. In short, he prefers to wear black baggy pants (ancient), patterned blue polo shirt (no Ralph Lauren here), brown loafers and a brown belt every day. The variation is just a long sleeve shirt, baggy jeans and over sized shirts. When I first met you think he just got home from work (the lights in the club is not reliable). But, his style began to interfere with your eyes and your mind the last few weeks. We met last night, you give him a surprise gift. He opened the bag with the spirit and frowning. Contents skinny jeans, khaki pants and shirt today and shirts that fit but not tight. He said, "what you mean?"

How to Be Positive
Early relationships are blind us to certain things. Yet the things that we do not see (or without our conscious effort to tolerate) is in fact contrary to the taste or our thinking. The desire to change someone to be healthier or more appropriate dress is not one. But, unfortunately, we can only change Ourselves. Although we are good intentions, the changes will not start and continue without us, too, changed. Better to bring together partners to make changes. So that was fair and beneficial to both parties.

For example, the proposed fitness center will be a member more effective and fun to apply to both. Ideally, this proposal also includes dialogue policies for your pleasure and it is: sports together; do with a healthy activity; healthy living, and improve the lifestyle of both.

Although honesty and communication is important in any relationship, it would be difficult to ask for a change of partners if demand looks to one side, let alone any element of personal interest. By changing the way the words that indicate the intention for a better life and sincerely for the sake of health or for the benefit of a partner, we create an atmosphere that is more fitting for a change. And she does not feel forced or even offended.