Signs Men Playboy

No woman wants a lover playboy. But still many do not realize that he is dating playboy.Prior already in love, first identify the character. It could be that men who are close to you now also include the type of player. Here are eight signs.

 

1. After contacting At 11 and 12 Nights 
There are 24 hours a day, if he likes you, he will choose the right time to ask about you. Once at 11 and 12 hours of the night was 'fun' guy. If he calls in the hours that means he does not want to get serious with you, he's just trying to tease you in her spare time.

2. Have Many Female Friends 
Beware when a man has many women friends than men. A typical man can close playboy with several women at one time. So if he often receives calls from women, you have to be more alert to it.

3. Smart Stringing Words 
Why women are difficult to resist the shackles of playboy? Because he's good at talking and flirting. He knows what to talk about when you're angry, upset or sad. He also will make you feel special and every word he's a good reflects. At this time, in fact he is deceiving you and control your emotions.

4. Talking a Lot About Your Physical 
What woman would not love a compliment. But when he praised the more your body, so be careful. He wants a better relationship and was trying to play with you.

5. Be Different in Home Friends of sixteen men 
When in front of his friends, the type of player he will give more hugs and physical touch to women. Do not be proud of yet, this is not the phrase is, unfortunately, but just wanted to show his male friends 'is my new prey'.

6. Highly ConfidentThe player has a high confidence level.  
How not, he felt able to subdue unwanted girls. More than that, they can trap two to three girls at once. That's what makes playboy more confident.

7. Not Interested in Your Life
 When he asks about your day, not necessarily he really cares. They make as matter, in fact not. They do this all to get something. When a woman has to trust him, then he will easily get his wish. 

8. Avoiding Going With You
 Of course the player wants to play seamlessly with their women. So he chose to avoid going out with you. But there is also the type of player who is very shrewd. It may be that, before going with you, he will ask permission to another woman if she would go along with a cousin or sister. This tactic is done to make it safer if you meet someone.

Change Without couple fights!

Case 1
1: The first time you met him at a restaurant, you're stressed a lot of work. With office tasks that pile up, you do not have time to exercise as usual.. So do you weigh two pounds added. Office tasks done, you often add date with him. Six months later, by the time you spend eating out, barbeque on Sunday, eat together at home, while watching DVD delivery, and so on. In short, add more you weighed five pounds. The first time began to close, he could say like women and can enjoy the food contains. But the last few weeks much has changed. Six months and seven days after it first met, she gave the gift of a year in a member-equipped fitness center with personal trainer. Ouch!


Case 2
2: You've been together for six months. First met at happy hour at a famous club. He does not make you interested in the face or appearance. But, you connect and despite extensive knowledge of styles of dresses such as om-om. In short, he prefers to wear black baggy pants (ancient), patterned blue polo shirt (no Ralph Lauren here), brown loafers and a brown belt every day. The variation is just a long sleeve shirt, baggy jeans and over sized shirts. When I first met you think he just got home from work (the lights in the club is not reliable). But, his style began to interfere with your eyes and your mind the last few weeks. We met last night, you give him a surprise gift. He opened the bag with the spirit and frowning. Contents skinny jeans, khaki pants and shirt today and shirts that fit but not tight. He said, "what you mean?"

How to Be Positive
Early relationships are blind us to certain things. Yet the things that we do not see (or without our conscious effort to tolerate) is in fact contrary to the taste or our thinking. The desire to change someone to be healthier or more appropriate dress is not one. But, unfortunately, we can only change Ourselves. Although we are good intentions, the changes will not start and continue without us, too, changed. Better to bring together partners to make changes. So that was fair and beneficial to both parties.

For example, the proposed fitness center will be a member more effective and fun to apply to both. Ideally, this proposal also includes dialogue policies for your pleasure and it is: sports together; do with a healthy activity; healthy living, and improve the lifestyle of both.

Although honesty and communication is important in any relationship, it would be difficult to ask for a change of partners if demand looks to one side, let alone any element of personal interest. By changing the way the words that indicate the intention for a better life and sincerely for the sake of health or for the benefit of a partner, we create an atmosphere that is more fitting for a change. And she does not feel forced or even offended.

Recognize the 5 Phase Marriage and challenge

Recognize the 5 Phase Marriage and challenge

Some say, the wedding was sweet in the beginning, then over time will become more and more bland.

This marriage is actually divided into several important phases. And, in each phase that you and your partner will face many challenges that will determine the future of your household together.

By understanding what these phases, you will be able to continue through year after year with the bond of love and commitment is stronger.

These are the five important phases of marriage and what you need to know:

Phase 1: Honeymoon
The first years to before the arrival of children is a time full of passion and love. All always about you both. Vacationing alone to remote places, to make love at unexpected times, it makes the relationship seem so romantic like in the movies.

However, should you also need to try to build the foundation of the household of the things that are outside the bedroom affairs. It's time to talk, what would you plan for the future of both families. When to have children, then how do you and your husband's career. Who will care for the child later on, and what her husband hope to children and you as well. Talking about, then the next you do not need to spend time to debate unnecessary.

Phase 2: Strengthening the foundation
Children may not yet born, but you begin to know the shortcomings, advantages, and the couple of bad habits - as well as himself against you. At this stage, you need to learn the importance of teamwork within the family. Equate back to the future vision and mission and establish closeness with the people that affect both of you, like a big family for example.
One of the reasons couples divorce at this phase is because they do not attempt to reconcile the two thoughts, and in fact avoid dissent.

Phase 3: Family is everything
This is the most important phase of family life. At this time, you are building a whole family with several children, buying cars and houses, and began looking for a job that is more promising future. Life has become increasingly busy, and this is a vulnerable time. Because you have so less time to think about your partner, how do I get to have a lot of time together, and how to enjoy intimacy with a partner. The more you think are the kids, work, and the debts to be paid.
A time to speak from heart to heart with your partner. Adjust the plan to be alone. No need to abandon the child, but maybe by waiting for them to sleep at night, then you can watch together with your partner and talk. Better yet, if after that 'conversation' continues on the bed.

Phase 4: Return both
When children grow up, studying or working in other cities and more preoccupied with his personal affairs, you will find that this is the moment when you get back together with your partner. Unlike the first on the newly married, you may be practically did not have much weight. Any material that is already accomplished and emotionally you and your spouse also has a lot more mature.
Both of you to take advantage of this phase to try new experiences. Like to pursue sports, gardening, or keep animals. You can do it with a partner or individually.

Phase 5: Already completed!
The children are married and maintain their own households. You also have retired from work and have lots of time with your partner. In this phase, you need to enjoy all that you can during the course of time. Not much you need to face again in this phase, besides the old days to meet with the couple, as he has always maintained a closeness with the children and grandchildren.

Recognize New Style Men Cheating

Men are like technology, growing time, increasingly sophisticated methods used also for the affair was discovered.
Here are some styles of men cheating on you need to know:
Dating in working hoursMeeting a little bit, did he use the weekend to meet clients. When asked why he was busy, he would put a loving face as he replied, "It's for the sake of our future, dear."
Hear an answer like this, the hearts of women who would not flowered? Want to be a baseball angry mood. In fact, it could be the answer he puts forward a part of her strategy to cover the naughty behind you. Men know the true weaknesses of today's women are easily dissolved by the discussions that lead to commitment.
If at the end of the week can do little about, he would go out with his mistress in office hours. Moreover, if the affair were friends work together, well ... the easier they are together. In addition, he also let me know when it will be diligent in overtime. With the addition of flavoring sentences that imply he does not like overtime, in the hope you feel sorry and did not ask any questions.
Honest affairDevelopment of social networking sites makes him difficult to cover the status "in relationship" and claimed his single. For that, they have set up a great way to stay safe affair, which claimed the affair if he already has a girlfriend or wife. Some men will say that his relationship with girlfriend trouble to impress prospective mistresses. Conversely, there is also just said that he had a girlfriend or wife, but she also loves the affair.
For men, honest in the beginning makes it easier lived affair. Because then, the affair is to know the risks and consequences so that he would not dare to demand all sorts, like asking for a date on a holiday, which became an official partner rights.
Changing the name on the phoneHave two cell phones or SIM card, received a phone call secretly at midnight, in unusual places, such as toilet, inclusive of how long that is not effective. In this way, many men-gap to its official partner. Hence, they turn the brain how to keep the unsuspecting partner.
Way that is still considered to be qualified to use a cell phone. Well, so you do not suspect, he changed the name of the affair with the man's name, or position of the affair with the boss or clients. That way, he will be free when I had to take a call and you will not dare to answer it.
Another way, they choose silent mode when there is an incoming short message from the affair. Usually, a man who cheated would prefer to call rather than send a short message. Due to send short messages, prone caught.
Paid in cashCredit card imprint is easy to trace, because the bill that comes every month is always listed every transaction made. From here, you know where he can have fun with their mistresses. Now, the man who cheated on is no longer rely on credit cards. They feel safer when dating expenses paid with cash. Yup, including airline tickets when they go on vacation. So you need to be suspicious when the thicker the wallet lately, but reduced the credit card transaction.
"Boys day out"Yes, if someone said that there was no friendship between men dead. Including conspiring with his friends when he was having an affair. No wonder they often use the excuse to go with friends or doing hobbies to smooth out the plan. He also occasionally will invite you to play or on vacation with her friends, and their respective spouses. That way, you will not be suspicious when he said to go with one of his friends.
Dating sites abroadYour order is not easy detection, it also will choose a date that far out of reach, such as out of town or overseas as well. Because the risk of meeting you or your friends are much smaller than they were hanging out in cafes in the city. For some men who had an affair, meeting no longer an important quantity, but quality is paramount. He may not be met with every day affair, but he can reasonably work out of town or abroad to be with his mistress for a week without being distracted.

Stay Away From This Type of Woman

Not unlike the women, men also have their criteria that women desire. According to studies, men tend to like and be attracted to women with a proportional body, sexy, and attractive appearance.

It's actually okay. But it would be wise if he is more sensitive to this. Should not only focus on the outward appearance of a woman, because it is not uncommon that like this would cost you a lot!

There are several types of women that you should stay away, if you do not want to be disappointed and lose later. Because not a few women to seduce and tempt to their interests.

Women's Exchange
This type will not hesitate to use her beauty to lure men with men in order to meet all your wants and needs. Expression of love women like this type should not be trusted 100 percent.

Shrew and liked to fight
This type is usually sensitive and easily offended. If they made ​​upset, he will be back challenging and endlessly angry with you. He will not hesitate to invite you to a fight in public, otherwise the situation will embarrass you.

Women teaser
Capital tempter or seducer like this will also do everything possible to attract the attention of men. They seem to try to understand what makes men happy. But so have fun and that she needs from you, this type will go away. Be careful with this type.

Woman a liar
Women of this type are very detrimental to their partners because each of his words would lie. This type is usually camouflage a tempter and seducer of women, let alone to get something from you.

Characteristics of Men Possessive Woman Should Know

Women are the creatures most like to be considered. Only if it's already too much attention, not to please but it will make her uncomfortable.
A healthy relationship has always characterized the attitudes of mutual respect for personal liberty pair, but still within the framework of a healthy commitment. But if there are excessive possessive attitude will become unhealthy.
In order not to be disappointed later, for the women noticed that possessive male trait-sharing in times of india, the following:
Insist on knowing where you areThe most obvious sign of a possessive lover is always want to control your life. Unable to contact by phone, he'll interrogate you to get a detailed answer and detail.
Contacted many timesHe will call you many times a day just to make sure that you are okay. Of course this can be annoying, especially if he is to send an SMS or call you though it was late at night. Overprotective attitude can make a person feel uncomfortable.
You assume he's the only friendFor him, you are everything. He also demands that you do so. All the things she does to go through both. Over time, it certainly can make it difficult to move.

 He wants you to really identify lifeMany women think, the jealousy of their lovers would make her feel valued and important. The difference between jealousy and possessiveness is when the lover is not satisfied with simply knowing that the person is watching you. He will dig further and ask about your opinion of him.
Always set up in every wayA woman needs space to be able to do many things, and most importantly, when dressed. But, possessive man will always want to set about the business partner's clothes. If you are always criticizing, for example about how to dress, he's included in the category of possessive.
Limit the movement of yourMost men do not like the possessive of their partner spending time with his family. If he started to not like the closeness with your family, you must be careful, it's in the category of possessive.

How to Find Out When Couple Are Lying

He said he would go with her friends, but one of his friends call home to ask how she was. Is he lying? How do you know your partner is lying or not?If suspicious with their utterances who signify the message confusing, then it's time for look for signs of other. The most obvious sign is the language of your partner's body.
 The best way to unload if someone is lying or not is to notice the awkwardness and unfamiliarity.In addition to the tools that can detect lies, which must be considered is the existence of signs of stress, anxiety, and depression. 
He suggests you should set a good voice before starting the investigation. Make sure it fits the facts. Do not directly discuss the nature alleged, make you ask people who want to feel comfortable first.Once you make them comfortable and quiet, then there are signs that you should look for: 
Blink. Eye movements that could mean as many signs that can be trusted to know a lie. The average person blinks once every 10 seconds, so if he blinks too often, there are many possibilities that he was thinking (maybe lie) quickly. 
The touch of the hand in the face. The higher level of hand gestures around the face, the higher the level of anxiety. So, any way that made her hands to her face, shows the person is trying to cover up lies. 
Suddenly quiet or tense. The opposite of his eyes are staring, blank stare response shows also dishonest. It was common for a liar who made a special effort to not move their eyes much to make it look convincing.You may be suspicious if someone looked very nervous and think that they are lying, but it is a common attitude. Something unusual is to talk to someone who looks like a statue. 
Do not approach someone when they are busy, too easy for them to hide their reactions and body language to cover when they're busy doing the work.These clues are not going to turn you into a lie detector. But by reading the body language of someone, at least you can get some certainty as being suspicious.